I am a 50 yo active, fit engineer who loves being outside, walking on one of the SB trails with my dog or on the beach.
I love the basics of life, enjoying growing my fruit and veggies and shopping at the farmers market for what I can't grow,
walking on the beach on a weekend as beautiful as we just had, or spending a rainy evening tomorrow by my fireplace
with my dog. I am liberal leaning when it comes to politics, but that comes with the territory when at 7 years of age, I was
awakened at 5am in NJ on Nov 15, 1968 and told by my parents to get up and board the bus to DC to join the protest
against the Vietnam war. I have 2 Ivy league degrees in Engineering and now have an interesting job close to my house that
I love. I sponsor 3 children in an orphanage in Nepal and have visited them for the last 5 years.

Bottom line is that this is not another disgusting CL ad as I viewed before posting this. I am looking for someone to be with
for a long time who, if possible, has many of the following traits:
1. Enjoys being outside whenever possible in the beautiful place we live.
2. Enjoys being around my mellow dog.
3. Is generally laid back and is comfortable not sweating the small stress items in life.
4. Is not too high maintenance, ok with jeans and a tee shirt or maybe even camping.
5. Likes it when I bring flowers or tomatoes from my garden.
6. Is 420 friendly or at least tolerant.
7. Thinks that it is unthinkable to miss a sunset dog walk if at all possible.
8. Thinks that sex is super fun.
9. Is healthy enough to be active and enjoy outdoor activities.
10. Likes to travel internationally.

I don't have a bunch of experience with CL ad's but I have heard that it is reasonable
to expect a bunch of spam in response. Could you please send a response with the
words 10 traits as the subject so I know you are one of the few real responses..Thanks.
Hope to hear from you...

• Location: Goleta
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Looking for a quality relationship. I am a semi retired attractive man looking for a marriage minded women with high values .
Someone who enjoys Santa Barbara. Slender 40's-50's

• Location: Santa Barbara
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Clean, kind, 24 year old male with a light foot fetish would like to pay $50 to touch your bare feet for 30-35 minutes. Nothing more, no sex, no date, just think of it as being paid to receive a foot massage and maybe play a little footsie if you are up for it. It is relaxing and soothing.

• Location: Santa Barbara
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hoping that my erotic pictures of myself will convince you
of how willing I am to please you!
Looking for an online partner to share pics, chat, email, smiles with.
32 years old...handsome, dark hair, blue eyes, 6' 4"..... a creative writer
with a hint of an exhibitionist in my professional self! Wanting to make you
laugh, think...get wet. Doesnt matter... married, single, whatever age.
100% for real. Please put "Davey" in the subject line so I know that you are too.

• Location: IL
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Have my own house in Montecito, looking to wine and dine, please no fake spammers, if you ask me to look at and sign up on some site then you will be blocked.

• Location: Santa Barbara
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I know exactly what I want.

The title says it all. If you're looking for an older man to train you, teach you, and to share adventures with, please respond.
Please be sane, fun, discreet, adventurous, and open to a straight forward/good/amazing/unique man who could take you places sexually youve never been before as well as being a kind/true friend thats always around to help whenever needed.
Lets create something, real, secret, and naughty.

As far as who I am, show me youre real and local in your reply, and I'll show you what makes me such a good choice.

• Location: santa barbara
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I am seeking a companion between the ages of 40 and 60 for a trip to Hawaii
This is something Ive always wanted to do...

I am 39 fit and very attractive, easy going and playful...I can promise you wont be disapointed.
If you can comp the trip, I will be all yours for the time there and make it a rewarding experiance!

Please dont hesitate to respond...at least see whats possible! :)

• Location: Santa Barbara
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New to the area, Hispanic male 44 years old 5'11 weight to height proportionate and teddy bear type. Looking for a mature woman (note age not given, if you are mature you will know). So lets see what's around here, lets have lunch, brunch or just a drink.

Please put your favorite color in subject so I know it is not spam.

• Location: Goleta
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I find asian ladies to be very attractive and would like to meet one who would love to be spoiled by a real gentleman who knows how to treat you like a lady. Allow me to roll out the red carpet for you and take you out for dinner and drinks and then perhaps some dancing. I am confident that at the end of the night you will see that I am a real gentleman who knows how to spoil a lady and respect her at all times. I am an old fashion gentleman hoping a friendship will lead to a LTR. If you are ready to meet a real gentleman then please reply with a picture and the Name of the restaurant you would like to go out for dinner in the subject line so I know you are REAL. Valentines day is coming up and would make for a great night out. Hope to hear from you.

• Location: Goleta
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Yup, lots of cities listed, just making sure people know that I'm a real guy posting here, I'm an attached guy, but not a fully happy guy (or would I be here)

So this is my ad, for the right woman, who knows that there is more than one kind of daddy for a woman to find. She knows the difference between being a sugar baby and a baby girl. Shes knows which is more intimate and personal and real. I'm open to exploring many many things with the right woman, but it takes time to get to know someone. A loving relationship between daddy and his baby means daddy takes care of baby as much as he can in every way he can, because he wants her to be happy, and safe, and cared for, but it's not a quid pro quo financial interaction.

Many people reading this ad might not know what I'm talking about, but maybe one will, one who understands what I'm looking for and my situation and will find that it fits their life too. Single or attached, I'm open as long as we both understand our relative situations and take the time to get to know someone.

This isn't 'casual' to me, it's an intimate kind of thing. It's real and not just for fun. Are you real?

• Location: Santa Barbara to Carp, everywhere betwee
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Have you ever been daddy's girl before? Does the idea of being daddy's baby girl appeal to you but you've never really been able to tell anyone before cause you thought it was 'wrong'? It's not wrong, and if you think this is an ad advertising for a sugar daddy, then you don't know what a daddy's girl really is. I am attached, but I'm posting in this section because I'm looking for a real connection with a woman, of any age, who understands the dynamic of daddy and his baby girl, or wants to. Please drop me a line.

• Location: Goleta, SB
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At least, not at first. I'm tired of having a ton of meaningless sex and vapid relationships. I want to meet an interesting girl, someone to grab and hold my attention, while I do the same. To talk about the inane and the infinite. A real connection. I'm not looking for a commitment, I'm just looking for someone interesting to date and hang with. Respond if this sounds good, with a photo and the subject line being your favorite book

• Location: IV
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45-65 F Work-Out Buddy needed, for LTR.

• Location: Santa Barbara
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I would like to share a little time with some one new,enjoy a walk on the beach or a light meal,take things slow and get to know each other with no particular destination in mind.I'm mostly interested in woman younger than me.

• Location: montecito
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Thank you for stopping by.
About me...
White,53,inshape,divorced, professional, and a father of grown children.
I love the beach, dining out, travel. Bike riding at the beach....All the fun things that couples share.
I'm looking for a Christian woman to is attracted to a man who loves the Lord and doesn't drink nor smoke.
I need to be equally yoked with a woman who will support me in my walk and will attend church with me. I really beleive that if a couple is not walking together they have no chance of surviving in this troubled world. I am a loyal man. I don't cheat and never have. I'm looking for a woman who seeks a man she matters to...can believe in and trust her heart to.
If you find an interest I would love to hear from you.
A picture would be great too.
Have a great weekend

• Location: Malibu
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Hello,

My name is Joseph Cardoso. Im looking for someone down to go hiking in about an hour? text me if your down for the seven falls.
eight o five eight eight three eight three o five. See ya!

• Location: santa barbara
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Everyone is watching the lameness known as the super bowl and I am bored as heck. Want to talk? Swm. Will trade pics

• Location: Sb
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I'm a romantic, soulful and down-to-earth guy who is friendly and easy to talk to...

I am living a very sociable, creative life - I'm the leader of three very popular Santa Barbara meetup groups - a consciousness raising group and two international film clubs. I own my own home in the Santa Barbara suburbs and live with my two cats - they're great company, but I'd prefer to feel YOU purring next to me instead :)

As a Life Coach, I'm involved with personal growth and I'd love to meet a woman who is too (and preferably one who is emotionally balanced, emotionally available, having closure on your last relationship). You're on good terms with your ex or have at least gotten over the pain of the divorce or his death. You value being a parent, but that's no longer your main identity. You're accomplished in some way - in your career or you may have a talent of some sort... and you can appreciate a man's depth and his ability to communicate.

Carl Rogers, the world famous psychologist, once said that "Individuals reach their greatest potential and experience their fullest humanity when they are involved in a close relationship with another person with whom they can share their triumphs and failures and be unconditionally accepted." These are not just words for me, but rather an ideal that I continually aspire to.

I believe you'll find that talking to me is an experience that's refreshingly different. I'm well-educated, well-read, and well-traveled. My friends would describe me as romantic, kind, understanding, sincere, resourceful, a good listener and articulate, open-minded, and affectionate.

I'd like to meet a woman who would enjoy meeting me with the intention of creating a loving, long-term relationship. I'm a non-smoker, and occasionally I can enjoy a glass of wine in the right company. I'm a rational, clear-minded, expressive human being in search of a woman who is more or less like me and who sincerely wants to find a good friend and romantic companion of the opposite sex. I'm sensual, sensitive, and sexual when the time is right. I like having fun, I enjoy talking and listening, and I'd truly like to share my life with an honest, attractive, feminine woman without playing games or taking unfair advantage of each other's kindness. I'm straight-forward, but also warm and friendly. I'm insightful, fun-loving and adventuresome. I have no bad habits, no lurking ex-wives, no family problems, and no unpaid bills. I'm completely open, aware, and curious to learn more about myself, my partner, and the world around me.

I'd love to share all of this with a kind, understanding, intelligent woman who is emotionally mature, affectionate, who can appreciate a man's depth, and who would like to share her life with me, as I would enjoy sharing mine with her. Though I easily meet women while I'm out and about, making that love and chemistry connection is rare. I also love domesticity - shopping with me is total fun, and I'll gladly help you wash the dishes.

If you'd like to meet a man who can touch your heart and warm your soul; if you're open to a loving connection with a man who is kind, sensitive, and insightful... then please, take the next step and introduce yourself.

Non-smoker only, widowed (at least 2 years) or divorced (with your divorce final), age over 40 preferred. Please reply and tell me a little about yourself. When you write, please say something specific about what I've written so I know that your message is a genuine attempt to communicate with me. (Quoting a sentence or two will work). A photo would be nice and will be greatly appreciated. You should be ready, willing, and able to embark on a new relationship - with the time for one as well. No recent breakups or separations please; no allergies to cats. I'm looking for a real connection and a meaningful, healthy long-term relationship - and I'd like to meet a woman who is too. The photo below is recent.

• Location: Santa Barbara
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successful well rounded athletic man would like to meet someone exotic intelligent and sane for casual dating and travel

• Location: SB
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Hello, I'm a new international student just arrived in town. I'm an handsome french guy, athletic (You'll love all my body...) and smart. But my principal problem is the money! I really need some to keep studying, it's the first time I do that... So if you can help me financially and if you're SERIOUS, I can offer different services in exchange... You can contact me and we will exchange pictures, discuss and meet us. It is an URGENT request, contact me only if you're serious again. I don't wanna loose my time. Don't contact me if you wanna make me suscribe to a website! For the serious one, you will not regret that...

• Location: Santa Barbara
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