I'm beginning to think all you females out there in Colorado Springs just get intimidated too easily. You see a good looking guy who is smart, employed, articulate and level headed and you avoid him like the plague.

I have posted here a few times, included photos, everything you would need to make a decision and the responses have been (to say the least) disappointing. Does confidence scare you or is there nothing but man haters trolling here on CL?

Seriously now, whats the deal? You can't complain that you can't find a decent man when you are too afraid to approach one or simply let him go by. Yes, you have to approach me since this is my ad and in order to start communications you actually have to respond. I return email to everybody and I'm not like these people who hide, receive photos, judge them and then not respond. We all judge, don't deny it, that just makes you look un-evolved :) Everybody who has responded to me, they have great personalities but c'mon, it takes more then a great personality to start a connection and my expectations are not irrational or too high because I certainly don't want some model.

Toss me some input, I have no problems discussing this with you. If you have been burned by multiple men on CL then let me take this opportunity to apologize to you on their behalf. No reason to deny yourself of a opportunity to achieve happiness and at the very least, make a new friend. Please don't email me and demand a photo right away, I have posted photos of myself here before. Engage me in conversation first.

I was listening to Savage Garden and thinking that I guess that this song applies to me.
In an honest attempt to solve this problem, I thought I would post this ad and see what happens.
I have been single too long and I guess I need to change that situation.
I don't have any specific requirements.
There is more to being friends or for that matter having a relationship than looks...not that I am ugly.
You should know that I have a child.
I have my own bad habits and I am not perfect in any sense of the word.
Please do not expect me to be anything more than what I am.
When you respond to this ad, please include a picture and a guess as to which Savage Garden song I was listening to when I wrote this in the subject heading.
This should be interesting...I have been single for a very long time due to family commitments.
My best attribute has always been loyalty so please consider that when you answer.
I can explain this requirement at a later time.
Thank you so much for reading this.

would like a texting buddy. maybe we could meet up, sometime. but texting would be great! hope to hear from ya! pic for pic, need to know who i am talking with!

I am a self-fish prick, good looking, and successful; thin, tone body… young enough to do it and old enough to do it right. I don’t smoke… I’m lots of fun but don’t have time for petty drama or emotional hysterics. Also, I’m intelligent, well educated, and don’t care what anyone thinks of me. I do what I want, when I want. I came to this world with nothing. I leave with nothing but love. Everything else is just borrowed.

I am looking for a long term relationship. Tell me three things that would make me want to get to know you better. That seems like a good place to start.

good guy looking to see whos out there. looking for a long term relationship, but not wanting to jump head first into anything. send me a message, and let me know a bit about you.

So this is like my third time posting and really nothing. So I figured I will repost with a little more.
ME
Tall, dark and handsome. Well forget the last two but one out of three is not bad.
I think I look ok not the best looking not the worst.
I am SKINNY not over weight or nothing
Short brown hair and baby blue eyes
I am drug free, but I am only against the major ones 420 is not really a drug and it don't bother me
Yet I still don't do it
I am a guy that does not think about sex 24/7 there are better thinks I can use my brain power for
I drink once every like 3 months if that so sorry girls no beer gut for me.
Music is life, listen to your heart it has its own beat.
My hobbies are; skating, drawing, shooting pool and watching movies
I have tattoos and piercings. This does not mean I am a "Bad Boy"

You
Age really doesn't matter as long as we share a common taste
Looks I am really not that picky BUT I am sorry there has to be a little attraction
I am skinny so you "THICK" girls please press back if you think your thick it make make it a little worse if you stand next to me
Be able to hold a conversation, not just yep, yeah and cool.
No hard drugs yes this includes meth sorry tweekers gotta move on.
Have a sense of humor
Be random, crazy or cool thats a bonus.

So now you know a little about me and what I am looking for. If you noticed I posted this under relationships, please not that means LONG TERM. Not looking for a one night stand or a weekend fling, I am looking to settle down and start something real.

Its pic for pic you know the rules. I am not saying I won't reply if you don't have a picture its just I like to see who I am talking to
Put your favorite color as the subject so I know you are real. I like the spam in a can not in my email thank you

Hi there hows it going well um this is actually kinda weird to me cuz ive never try this before but my name is Harold Hispanic I'm full blooded puerto rican and I do speak spanish since its my first language lol I'm very outgoing im always on a happy mood im also really silly type i like making ppl laugh i like to listen to music watch movies work on my car or computers lol hang out with friensds or anything thats fun I move here to the springs about 6 months ago I'm 22 yrs of age well bout to be 23 in a week lol um i was curently working but I stop so i could focus on school I live with my mom not because i want to cuz i have too she has cancer or some medical problems that she dont wanna discuss with me so i have to stay with her to help her with anything and to take care of my lil brothers and sisters as well.. Im looking for some one thats gonna be honest n faithfullsince i have the same qualities not looking for any games nor drama if ur interested hit me up with a pic and something about ur self on the title put favorite movie or music so i know that ur real

I want a girl that reads lots of books; like to dress in red and/or black; anti-social and likes the medical
that doesn't like to stupid things in public with apparatus

sorry no BBW

Ok I'll start with i'm curious. I'm a single guy who is definatally shy at first and has a very hard time approaching a woman. I have a few questions. So here we go.

1. How if possible with out scaring away a woman, do you approach a woman out of the blue?

2. Is it a shock to a woman if a guy is looking for a LTR? It just seems like most guys are only in it for sex. Do woman just expect that?

3. Is there any way to prove that not all guys are like that?

From what I have heard woman like a confident man, but if all you can do is stumble with his words any help and or advice is apreaciated. I just don't want to be single the rest of my life.

I will be going to a military ball in about a month and I would like to meet a lovely lady to take with me and have a great night. I'm looking this far out because I would like that night to be comfortable and not the first night we've met. Please send pics, put ball date in the subject line, and tell me all about yourself.

hey peeps whats up I m looking for some one to go ride bikes with and hike with. Summer is almost over and want to enjoy every last bit of it. Im 25 white male in good shape, fun funny. reply with favorite color i subject line.

I'm looking for a pretty, sweet, kind, hwp, girl around 18-21 that I can be with, hopefully for the rest of my life and that I can take care of. Please send a pic, tell me all about yourself, and let's be happy from now on.

Well big bronco fan with tickets looking for a girl to take to home games. We have a group that always goes to the game together. I'm single and I need a partner go with. Our game day is an all day thing. We leave C springs in a limo stocked with bloody mary's by nine. Our tailgate is set up by ten thirty. Let the party begin! Game time usually two Go Broncos !! After the game back to C springs and a stop to eat at Hooter's. Sounds like fun? We do this every game. About me.I'm a real nice, fun loving older guy. I very young a hart, very active. would love more than anything, having a good woman in my life. You can see my pic. on the net at flickr. Just go to flickr and pull up Mayor of Denver. Look for the orange bronco limo and you'll find me. If that does not work, I'll send pic. you send pic. age does not matter. Me 5'7" 170

hi im Joe im 22 m single brown hair blue eyes 6.1 tall 160 lbs lust got out of active duty army and now working for doc in canon city but live in the springs you must host for i live with friends and sleep on the couch for now what im looking for is a female around 20 to 25 years of age and good looking if you like wht you have read send me a text to seven one nine 314 8 one four 3 pic for pic

my name is matt im 23 years old 5 10 140 pounds just want to find that perfect country girl that loves campin bein outdoors and is just a all around country girl if you match this song plz email me or text me at seven one nine 360 one seven six 8.



"Gimmie That Girl"

Hang up that red dress,
Let down your hair,
Cancel those reservations
Don't need to go no where.
As good as your looking right now,
Girl bet your thinkin I'm crazy,
There's a side of you that I wanna see
That never ceases to amaze me.

Gimme that girl with the hair in a mess
Sleepy little smile with her head on my chest,
Thats the you that I like best,
Gimme that girl.
Gimme that girl lovin up on me,
Old t-shirt and a pair of jeans,
Thats the you I wanna see,
Gimme that girl, gimme that girl.

Gimme the girl thats beautiful,
Without a trace of makeup of on,
Barefoot in the kitchen,
Singing her favorite song.
Dancing around like a fool,
Starring in her own little show,
Gimme the girl the rest of the world,
Ain't lucky enough to know.

Gimme that girl with the hair in a mess
Sleepy little smile with her head on my chest,
Thats the you that I like best,
Gimme that girl.
Gimme that girl lovin up on me,
Old t-shirt and a pair of jeans,
Thats the you I wanna see,
Gimme that girl, gimme that girl

This is a ad for my friend Matt who always seems to find the bad ones in the bunch. So I am going to try to find someone for him. He is a really good guy and deserves the best. The best meaning someone who will love him as much as he loves them. Matt is a 30 year old male with a lot of hobbies. He likes to play guitar, writing, painting. Anything creative... So if you are a musician or artist that would be a huge plus. He's not too big on sports, but he does love hockey. He loves the outdoors and always is looking to go camping or hiking anytime that he can. He is the hopeless romantic type. Matt is the type of guy that writes cheesy poems for girls, gets flowers, candlelit dinners and all that romantic stuff. The loves in his life right now are his cats Addie and Isis. He is a very loving person and gives people too many chances. He is too nice for his own good in a way. I think that is what gets him into the bad relationships that he has been in. He has a good job, a car, a place, etc... so he is not a loser. No drug users please!!! Drinking is okay, but no alcoholics. He has tattoos so if you are against that kind of thing don't bother. He is a gun owner but not a hunter type. Ex-military, but he was a medic, he likes helping people. This is not a fake post, I am really trying to help my buddy. Please email if you are interested in meeting him because he doesn't know that I am doing this. You have to pass me before I'll let you meet him. You better not be a user or a cheater!!! So if you are interested please email me and send a pic, hobbies, lifestyle, etc... Thank you.

HELLO THANKS FOR READING MY AD, NOT REAL SURE WHAT TO PUT HERE,I AM LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO HANG OUT WITH AN BECOME FRIENDS FRIST,AN SEE WHERE IT LEADS WOULD LIKE A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP,BUT WANT TO GO SLOW AN SEE WHERE IT LEADS. IF INTERESTED PLEASE SEND A PIC. I WILL SEND MINE BACK AN WE CAN GO FROM THERE, LETS GET TOGEATHER AN SEE HOW IT GOES. PLEASE DONT ASK ME TO JOIN A SITE I WILL DELETE YOU NOT HERE TO PLAY GAMES

So NFL season starts tonight and I was thinking about going to some place like indigo joes to watch it. Im not a fan of the vikings or saints but just love football. Thought it might be nice to have someone to go with. I would put a pic on here but with my luck a coworker or someone I know would see it but I would be happy to send one if you respond. But for now Im 6'3 190 brown hair kept short and blue eyes. Hope to hear from you.

looking for a woman 45-55 who is interested in ltr. not looking for games or someone still hungup on ex. your pic gets mine. put color of eyes in subject line so i know your real

There is a little place in the jumbled sock drawer of my heart where you match up all the pairs, throw out the ones with holes in them, and buy me some of those neat dressy ones with the weird black and red geometrical designs on them.